Dear Ms. Tierney,
Thank you for being so kind, so caring, and so relatable during my senior year of high school. Being able to have a teacher who balances the academic aspects and lighter, more social aspects of class with such ease honestly made your class something enjoyable and something to look forward to in my day.
Not only did you act as an english and public speaking educator (I loved that class so much), but also as someone to go to. You accepted all of my concerns and stresses with open arms and always portrayed yourself as a shoulder to lean on. I know there had been times when I cried, got nervous, or became overly stressed out over nothing—do not worry I still do—and instead of nonchalantly pushing aside my issues with a simple “you’ll figure it out” you offered advice, shared personal experiences, and comforted me; I want you to know I appreciated that immensely.
The opposite always held true for you as well. You were a more than enjoyable person to laugh and joke with, to discuss workouts, and to agreeably brush off doing school work for that day simply because we didn’t feel like it. However, when it came to teach, guide, and assist you always proved to be determined and beyond optimistic. I had always been a strong writer, including in AP Language and Composition my junior year. You, though, you helped me to expand even further on my writing, my thinking, my presence in front of others, and my ability to portray my feelings on a paper. Now I am a freshman in college, and my english professor, Professor Freeman, always compliments my work with a great deal of gratitude. I stand up in front of class and read my work aloud with everyone showing appreciation, and in turn I give my gratitude to you.
Aside from the rigor of classes and work, college comes with a great deal of other stresses such as making schedules, deciding a major, and well you know just determining your future—no big deal. These are aspects that I am currently having a mental battle with. Do I take this breadth course or this one? Do I remain as an Exercise Science major or switch to Health and Behavior Science? What am I going to go to grad school for? What do I want my job to be? These are all questions I have been bouncing around in my head for the past week or so, and honestly it leads to nothing but even more stress and anxiety than I have.
One thing though, that I think about as I write this and explain my worries, is everything will work out in the end. You switched your major multiple times and were open enough to share those experiences with the class. Always, no matter what, you remained positive in terms of your own success and always portrayed the same attitude about ours, about mine. You always said that our presence at school would make it great, regardless of where we were. Thinking about it now, I really should try and focus on that in terms of my future and my decisions. I know everything will be okay, thank you for always reminding me that.
Thank you for being the best teacher and friend at the same time, for always showing support and guidance. I hope you are doing well, I miss you!
Always,
Toni Abdy

Hi Toni!! I really enjoyed reading your post on the relationship you created with your english teacher in high school and how she impacted your life. It is crazy how the relationships we create with teachers when we are younger can effect us drastically in the future. I was wondering do you still keep in touch with your teacher? Whenever I get stressed and worried, I have a teacher that I made an amazing relationship with and I just email, call, or text her because she is like a teacher on how you described yours. Even now in college, I still feel that so many professors on UD campus give amazing advice with majors and academics but it does not always feel the same on the personal level compared to high school or grades younger. I hope you are well and staying safe!!
Alexis Lichten
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hi! thank you so much! I actually have not really kept in touch with her since graduation aside from seeing her here and there over break and what not, but she is definitely the one I would feel most comfortable reaching out to.
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I really loved this post. My high school soccer coach has been one of the biggest influences for me over the past few years. It’s really something special when you can connect with a teacher or coach like that. My soccer coach was also a physics teacher at my school, and even though I never had him for class, all of my friends would sit in his room with him to eat lunch everyday. He was someone I could go to for anything, school related or otherwise, and receive hours of his advice. I have stayed in touch with him and he even helped me get a job as a camp counselor this summer by being my reference. Anyway, I really appreciate this post because I really don’t think teachers, professors and coaches get the recognition they deserve in general—especially those like your teacher, and my coach, who have dedicated their lives to the well-beings of these kids and go above and beyond their teaching obligations to really get to know and form relationships with their students. Great work, I loved this post per usual. I hope you’re staying safe and healthy!
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Thank You! I honestly can’t believe I didn’t think of writing to my high school soccer coach because we formed such a close bond throughout my four years playing. So nice to hear you formed that same kind of bond. Yes, I agree completely, they are more than just what their position describes them as and I think it’s important we recognize them for it. I had Ms. Tierney as an english teacher and a public speaking teacher so we formed a close bond my senior year.
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